Let’s get kinky w/Jessie Maree

Date Aired: January 21, 2024

Produced By Janice Formichella

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Episode Description

Exploring personal kinks and fetishes is one of the boldest, most affirming journeys you can take in your erotic life! Have you ever been curious about trying something hot in or out of the bedroom that is not considered “vanilla?” Do you already do something that is? Let’s talk about it! In this episode, I dive right into the deep end with the brilliant and outspoken Jessie Maree. This conversation is an open invitation to shed shame, get curious, and discover what’s really possible when we honor our desires.

Jesse and I don’t just skim the surface; we unpack what makes something a kink versus a fetish, why some people crave certain experiences, and how those interests can shift over time. We talk about the power of community, the joy of finding your own flavor of “not vanilla,” and the importance of consent and boundaries in kink. Whether we’re laughing about early adventures, sharing cringe-worthy first attempts, or swapping resources, there’s one theme that comes up again and again: safe kink exploration is essential.

We touch on

The top most internet searched kinks in 2025
The difference between kink and fetish, and why language matters
How exploring personal kinks and fetishes can bring more honesty and fun into your relationships—solo or partnered
Practical tips for safe kink exploration, from rope and impact play to praise, degradation, age play, and more
Why “don’t yuck someone else’s yum” is a guiding principle for navigating kink communities
How to talk about your kinks (even the surprising or “weird” ones) without shame
The best ways to get started, whether you’re single, partnered, curious, or just craving something new
Auralism, bondage, choking, cuckolding, electrostimulation, golden showers, and MORE

Jesse brings her wisdom as a coach and a seasoned explorer, and I open up about my own missteps and victories. We also offer real-world advice on finding kink-affirming spaces, vetting resources, and building supportive relationships for your journey. If you’re ready to start exploring personal kinks and fetishes (or just want to feel seen and heard in your desires) this is the episode for you.

Take a listen, share it with a friend, or send me a message with your thoughts. And if you want support navigating the dating scene to find someone compatible with your own unique turn-ons, consider booking a session with me. There’s no wrong way to be curious.