Physical flirts are overt flirts. They express interest through eye contact, playful touching, and use of physical space. They may turn toward the object of their desire, show photos from their phone, or order a round of shots as a way of (even subconsciously) dominating the area. When getting to know someone they will share and ask for personal information.
How to spot them:
-It won’t be hard to spot a Physical flirt. They may be the life of the party; willing to take the lead in creating a fun vibe for those around them.
-When they flirt these individuals will naturally come closer to the person physically.
-The Physical flirt is very comfortable with eye contact, both during conversations and with someone they are interested in but haven’t met yet.
Super powers:
-Having the kind of confidence many people wish for
-Clarity - a Physical flirt makes it obvious they are interested
-Creating fun for those around them
-Able to move relationships along quickly
Possible drawbacks:
-Coming on too strong
-Leading people to believe they are more interested in romance than they are
-Engaging in “hook up” behavior that might leave one person confused or wanting more
-Might come off as cocky
Where this type might shine:
-Bars and clubs: the Physical flirt is very comfortable in crowds and is even comfortable going out alone
-Online: Physical flirts will happily move a DM conversation to an in-person meeting faster than other flirting types
-Public events such as concerts and street fairs/community gatherings
Advice from a dating coach:
-Make your confidence work for you! Let your personality out.
-If you are connecting with someone you are not romantically interested in, make sure not to lead the person on. Be honest about your intentions.
-Read the room - carefully gauge how comfortable people are with you in their physical space.
-Be conscious about moving relationships along too quickly. Even though you are feeling confident and attracted to someone there are still many benefits of taking things slow in the early days of dating.
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