Dom/Sub 101 w/Christina Morelli

Date Aired: July 3, 2024

Produced By Janice Formichella

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Episode Description

Dom Sub 101 is a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood (and potentially transformative) relationship dynamics out there. In this episode, What does it really mean to be “a submissive?” What is “a dominant” and why do people choose these roles inside of sexual and/or partnered relationships? Are you curious to explore one or the other? We got you. I’m joined by Christina Morelli, who brings a decade of experience in the BDSM community to help unpack everything you need to know about dominant/submissive dynamics, from basics to boundaries and beyond.

Christina and I break down what the Dom/Sub relationship is (and what it definitely isn’t). We explore how power exchange dynamics can be both exhilarating and healing, with trust, intentionality, and clear communication at the center of it all.

You’ll hear us talk about:

The difference between tops/bottoms and dom/sub roles, and why “the right side of the slash” holds more agency than many assume.
How BDSM relationships demand radical honesty and ongoing negotiation. Consent in kink isn’t a buzzword, it’s the foundation.
The variety of dom/sub styles. From playful bondage and bedroom-only scenes to master/slave agreements and even 24/7 power exchanges.
Rituals, aftercare, and community support. How to find safe spaces (like munches and dungeons), and why it’s essential to never explore this alone.
The cultural impact (and limitations) of Fifty Shades of Grey. Including how fantasy and reality diverge when it comes to safety, consent, and mutual respect.
And most importantly, Dom Sub 101- How to get started with Dom/sub play either as a single person, couple, or more!

Christina shares her personal journey, including what drew her to both dominant and submissive roles, and why deep exploration of desire always circles back to communication and trust. We touch on shibari, key holder dynamics, caregiver/little play. We end with discussing how the power of rituals and negotiation can create meaningful, authentic relationships.

If you’re drawn to how power can be exchanged in safe, consensual ways, Dom Sub 101 is the episode for you. Share it with a friend, leave a review, or reach out!

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