My first post-divorce Valentine’s Day came just 4 four months after we split. Yes, I was devastated about the split. But I was also lucky – I was living in NYC at the time and had manifested a large and MAGICAL group of spiritual, powerful, positive women around me. more than a few of them were also on their breakup healing journey. A handful of them were loudly letting their single flag fly.

Being in the community planted the first seed of my desire to become a breakup coach.

On Valentine’s Day that year one of them posted something on Facebook that yelled at me:

“I am better off being single than being in an unhealthy relationship.”

Having since made this my motto and sang it from the rooftops for years, it seems so simple. But the first time I saw it it moved me.

If you are struggling with a broken heart right now I hope you will remind yourself that ALL breakups happen because there was something in the relationship that wasn’t working. There is no exception to this rule.

You are better off.

And you are going to be okay.

And I am here to help if you want extra support. Book a free intro call here to chat about my coaching.