Dating Coaching

As a dating and relationship coach, I will guide you in navigating modern dating with confidence, and to build the skills and confidence to find a relationship that feels healthy and aligned with your goals and aspirations.

Does dating feel harder than it should?

Are you tired of meeting people who seem promising, only to be disappointed?

Do you feel discouraged by how often dating has lead to bad chemistry, or another dead end?

Is companionship something you deeply desire?

Are you ready to understand your dating patterns, make more intentional choices, and to create a different experience in love?

Are you ready to believe that the relationship you desire is possible, and to learn how to move toward it with confidence?

Let's make it happen.

I know what it’s like to feel that relationships are just out of your reach. 

I also know how frustrating dating can become, when the same disappointments, patterns, or dead ends seem to repeat themselves.  AND I know that it is possible to approach dating in an entirely new way. 

Please know that: 

  • Dating matterns can feel automatic and difficult to change.   But they aren’t.
  • Attraction can be powerful.  Chemistry can be exciting.  But neither one tells us whether someone is truly compatible with us.
  • To add to the confusion, dating apps can feel like an unfamilliar wasteland.  With some finesse and proper intention, you can find what you're looking for.  
  • Learning to date with greater awareness and intention can be one of the most empowering things you do.  And the payoff can extend far beyond dating itself.  
  • Self-sabotage is real - even if we don’t realize we are doing it (I’ve been there as well!).
  • You CAN become more confident in dating, make better choices, and find and build the relationships you truly desire and deserve.

Ready to take your dating life into your own hands, and attract the relationship you truly want?

Book your free first session

Intentional Dating

 

Wanting companionship is a valid and beautiful desire. But it sure isn’t easy to find, right? You may be surprised about what a game changer some loving and informed support can be. I LOVE dating coaching and have developed a program that provides fun and effective support each step of the way.

Phase 1: Confidence Coaching Program

Have you ever heard that confidence is the sexiest quality? It’s true! We will first take a look at the state of your confidence, where you’d like to make improvements, and have some fun doing it! From loving your life as it is to loving the person you see in the mirror to getting crystal clear on how to have boundaries we are going to get you feeling stronger than ever and ready to attract other confident people into your life.

Phase 2:  Showcasing your best self

Let’s get intentional! It’s time to develop a strategy that is going to help make your dating experience positive, no matter how many second dates you go on. Together we will determine your dating goals and how to achieve them. Get out your apps, let’s get you ready to get out there!

Phase 3: Dating strategy and guidance

Let the fun begin! It’s time to start matching and seeing where your dating journey takes you. Together we will take the confidence you’ve built to get comfortable meeting new people on and off the apps, make sure you have support prepping for your first dates, and help navigating what happens after.

Do you have the desire to get confident and start a new fun and exciting chapter in your dating life?

Book your free first session

While I have a methodology that has been proven to help you become a more confident and intentional dater…

  • Each person is different
  • Dating experiences and challenges are different 
  • And therefore…each person's path forward  is different

This is why I ALWAYS offer personalized support based on where YOU are when we meet. No matter what we're working on together, I'll be there for YOU every step of the way, and we will co-create action plans based on your dating goals, your past experience, your compatability, and your personality.  Together, we will move you towards the relationship you want.  

Want a dating coach, but not sure where to start? 

I have three different customized programs to meet you where you are on your dating adventures and what you want to accomplish during our time together. 

The Dating App Overhaul

90-minute fireworks session 

  • Pre-workshop assessment 
  • One 90-minute dating app profile consultation, to optimize all of your profiles.
  • Personalized action plan 

$149

Installment plans available
~$5-$25/mo

Book your free first session

Dating With Confidence Package

one month program

  • Pre-program assessment
  • One 90-minute fireworks workshop
  • Three 60-minute live 1:1 action plan sessions
  • One month of unlimited daily text/voice memo support
  • Weekly action plans personalized to your goals
  •  Dating app optimization program
  • Speed dating strategy and self marketing program
  • Customized resources and homework based on your unique needs

$499

Installment plans available
~$14-$83/mo

Book your free first session

The Intentional Dating 3 month intensive

3 month full guided program

  • Pre-program assessment
  • One 90-minute fireworks workshop
  • Seven 60-minute live 1:1 action plan sessions
  • Three months of unlimited daily text/voice memo support
  • Weekly action plans personalized to your goals
  • Comprehensive confidence assessment
  • Full Dating app optimization program
  • Speed dating strategy and self marketing program
  • Dating strategy and reflection
  • Customized resources and homework based on your unique needs

$1,499

Installment plans available
~$41-$249/mo

Book your free first session

FAQs

I don't know exactly what type of support I need, is coaching right for me?

As a dating and relationship coach, I work with people from around the world to ecome more confident, intentional, and successful in their dating lives.  I help them understand what they are looking for, to recognize the patterns and choices that may be getting in their way, and to develop practical strategies for meeting, connecting with, and choosing people who are a better fit for the relationship they want.  You don't need to understand exactly what isn't working to start.  Gaining that clarity is part of the process.  Working together, we will look at where you are now, what you want to change, and what will best help you achieve your dating goals.  

If you aren’t familiar with the coaching process you may have a lot of questions. Ask me! Send me a message using the form below or book a quick chat here.

What is the difference between coaching and therapy?

I am a BIG fan of therapy and utilize it myself! They are very distinct types of support, both offering valuable guidance. 

Put shortly, coaching is a process that is heavily future-focused. Outcomes are discussed and action plans created to ensure you reach them. Therapy, on the other hand, is largely analytic and often looks at one’s past, addressing trauma, or mental health concerns.  

What is text/voice memo support?

Let me support you in real time! The time in between our calls is the “activation” period of your coaching program. During this time you may discover things, have questions come up, or need some additional guidance. My coaching programs are unique in that I provide ongoing support to my clients between our in person sessions via WhatsApp.

Want to get my take on something? Reach out, and expect a timely and thoughtful response in return.

Do you work with all genders?

Yes!  I work with people of ALL backgrounds and identities.

Do you have infrequently asked questions?

Ask them below!  I will get back to you within 24 hours

Testimonials

“Janice is charismatic, dedicated, smart and experienced. Her working style is efficient, solution-oriented and based on profound knowledge. Her warm nature provides a safe space for clients to share their truth. She offers guidance with empathy and honesty. I would totally recommend her to my loved-ones!”

Vivian O.

“Janice has been nothing short of a miracle. From the day I started coaching I've never been alone...She has been so supportive and understanding, and after every coaching session I felt like a heavy burden was lifted off my back. She is with you every step of the way. She constantly gave me support and gave me activities to bring out the best in me. In the time we worked together I made breakthroughs I would've never made.”

Robbie D.

“I liked the Zoom call appointments and feeling like I was connecting with someone that cared about my future. My sessions have helped me get closer to moving on and letting go finally.”

Brad P.

“My favorite thing with my coaching experience was Janice's genuine desire to see me win, thrive, and grow! She is such an advocate for her clients and feels like a true cheerleader and friend from beginning to end and beyond.”

Rachel

“I felt so supported by Janice which really helped boost my confidence and vision of myself. She encouraged me constantly while still holding me accountable.”

R.K.

"I went through a devastating breakup earlier this year, and I reached out to Janice shortly after finding her podcast. I loved the advice and resources offered in the podcast, and I decided I wanted more personalized support through this transition. Working with Janice was truly transformative. With her support, I was able to turn my most hurtful breakup into my most positive breakup experience. Thanks to our work together I am healing from my breakup in a healthy way, and I’m on the path to building the life of my dreams.”

Kaci C.

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“I never knew a breakup coach existed, and I wish someone had mentioned this years ago. Meeting and working with Janice gave me a surprisingly non-judgemental space to ask for support, admit defeat, and guide me back on the ladder to moving up and away from a breakup that ended up being all breakups rolled into one. From the practical tips to the emotional phone calls, to post-it notes stuck to the back of my phone with words of strength, Janice's open hand led me through a difficult path, and even today I pull in lessons she taught me.”

Emma G.

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"Janice Formichella, was amazing and helped me through an extremely difficult breakup. Janice emphasized the importance of building resilience and inner strength so that I may be enough on my own. Her program has so much value, both going through the breakup and for years afterward. She started me on the path of facing the demons and devils of my past. her words and the support she gave me has never left me. Janice, thank you so much!!!"

Emily M.

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“Janice Formichella’s podcast and coaching has been invaluable for me over the last few years since my divorce. Working with Janice has taught me so much about myself, my patterns, and helped me finally take accountability for my decisions when it comes to just about every relationship I have had.”

Mike S.

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"Working with Janice was one of the best decisions I made during my separation. She was patient, kind, and encouraging throughout, allowing me to generate space and grace for myself and others, in spite of my learned internal precognitive commitments and societal external pressure. Her coaching and guidance led me to start to understand and learn to accept myself (cuts, bruises and all) as well as others, and not be afraid to take on what I hope to be a more truthful, soulful and fulfilling solo life. Namaste Janice."

Kelsey F.

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About your Coach

About your Coach

Janice Formichella | BA, MPA

Like many of us, I wasn’t raised with examples of healthy relationships to learn from. I WAS raised to believe that one of the most important things you can do in life is to be married and that long-term relationships were all encompassing. This caused me to be controlling and anxious in my early relationships and to allow myself to be treated horribly for the sake of saving the relationship.

I was married and then divorced at a very young age. This caused me to enter the dating world with low self-worth and move in and out of relationships with low expectations and standards.

Being in a physically abusive relationship caused me to re-enter the dating world hungry for attention but terrified of intimacy and therefore heavily avoidant. Relationship after relationship ended painfully and led me to devote years of my life to improving myself, learning about relationships, becoming my own soulmate. THEN, I figured out how to date with confidence, healthy boundaries, and curiosity (and the ability to attract and keep GREAT relationships).

As a secure attachment coach, I am here to help you do the same.

Besides my personal experience, I am a qualified Beautiful You life coach, a certified group facilitator with Sacred Sister, hold a BA in Gender Studies from ASU, and an MPA from NYU.

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